Retreat Summary
What if the key to your deepest pleasure was also the key to your highest power? Pleasure as Purpose is an advanced retreat for GBTQ+ men ready to strip away shame, push past repression, and fully own their erotic energy—not just for pleasure, but as a pathway to profound self-awareness, connection, and even spiritual transcendence. Inspired by The Divine Androgyne, an underground classic of queer sexual mysticism, this immersive week blends mind-expanding discussions, unapologetic sexual exploration, and deep-body practices, from solo-sex and gooning to fisting and power play (always optional, consensual, and intentional). Together, we’ll challenge outdated conditioning, awaken our rawest desires, and step into the full intensity of our pleasure—without fear, without apology, and with a newfound sense of purpose.
Detailed Retreat Description
Pleasure has long been treated as indulgent, fleeting, or even sinful—but what if it were the missing link to something much bigger? Pleasure as Purpose is an immersive, advanced retreat that challenges GBTQ+ men to rewire their relationship to desire, sexuality, and spirituality, breaking free from repression to explore erotic energy as a force of self-discovery, connection, and transcendence. This is a space to question old conditioning, embrace your rawest cravings, and step into a fully realized, unfiltered version of yourself—one that finds power, purpose, and maybe even enlightenment through pleasure.
Drawing from The Divine Androgyne, a lost classic of queer sexual mysticism, we’ll explore how erotic energy can be more than just an act of pleasure—it can be a ritual, a transformation, a gateway. Through advanced erotic practices—including solo-sex, gooning, anal play, fisting, power dynamics, and beyond —we’ll examine how surrender, control, and deep physical states can unlock something profound within us. How do cycles of pain and pleasure, dominance and submission, or edge play open us up to something bigger than ourselves? How do we take our most primal urges and turn them into tools for liberation?
Beyond the erotic, we’ll unpack the unconscious scripts that shape queer relationships—religious conditioning, heteronormative ideals, and outdated expectations around monogamy. We’ll also explore the role of substances in sexual play: are they a tool for checking in or checking out? And what shifts when we harness pleasure fully, without inhibition or escape?
This retreat is for those who aren’t satisfied with surface-level pleasure. It’s for those ready to lean in, go deep, and strip down—mentally, emotionally, and physically. Through a week of exploration, conversation, and embodiment, we’ll co-create a space of trust, intensity, and transformation, where pleasure isn’t just an experience—it’s a practice, a tool, and a doorway to something greater.
This retreat is designed specifically for GBTQ+ men who:
This retreat welcomes all ages (18+) and body types, embracing inclusivity and diversity.
Approval Process
We want to make sure that all participants are a good fit for the retreat. Therefore, upon registration we will ask each participant to complete a health and intention form. We will reach out to you within 7 days of the submission of your form to discuss any questions or concerns, or will approve your participation. Please wait to book any non-refundable travel until you receive this approval. If for any reason it is found that you are not a good fit for the retreat, your payment will be refunded in full.
Typical Daily Schedule (*Subject to change):
7-8am Morning Embodiment Practice
8-9am Breakfast
9-11am Tactical
– Consent
– Technique
– Physiology / Anatomy
11-1 Nature / Down Time
1-2 Lunch
2-3:30 Philosophy / Discussion
– Divine Androgyne discussion and review
– More facilitated group conversation than lecture
3:30-5:30 Facilitated Play Time
– Different themes or experiences
6pm Dinner
– Optional Facilitated Discussions
7pm free to explore, connect, and/or rest
Community Agreements: The Pleasure and Purpose team and the Jungle Gayborhood aim to inspire personal exploration, radical self-expression, and a sense of connection – internally, with community, and with nature. To create a predictable and safe environment conducive to this type of healing, growth, reflection, and expansion, we ask that all participants adhere to these agreements throughout the week.
DATE & TIME DETAILS: Sunday, May 11 - Saturday, May 17, 2025
LOCATION: 'The Jungle Gayborhood' San Salvador de Baru, Diamante Valley, Costa Rica
CONTACT:Included:
- Group shuttle airport transfer to and from the Jungle Gayborhood (at a specific time and date).
- Accommodations at the Jungle Gayborhood and Diamante Cave
- All camping materials for a night in Diamante Cave
- All meals and snacks - most dietary restrictions can be accommodated
- All listed activities, transportation and practices
- Guided waterfall hikes, and river adventures
- Transportation for all excursions
Not Included:
- Flight
- Any visas that may be required
Cancellation Policy: A 50% Deposit payment is required to book your space. The remaining 50% will be processed 30 days prior to the start of the course.
90+ days prior to the start date: Full refundScholarship Options: Participants who would like to join the course but are facing financial challenges can opt for one of a limited number of scholarship options. They will be able to access the course at a greatly reduced price. Accommodation will be in a camping tent rather than a cabin.
In order to qualify, please fill out this Scholarship Application Form to let us know about your situation and the scholarship amount you are seeking.Precio Tico: For Costa Rican nationals we offer a 50% discount on listed prices. Please email [email protected] for further information. A Costa Rican passport or identity card is required.
Digital Detox: You will be strongly encouraged to switch off all electronics for the duration of the course in order to connect more deeply to nature and to yourself. Use of electronics will be strictly limited to the bedrooms. Electronics such as phones, iPads or laptops will not be able to be used in any public areas.
Doggo Notice: We have two very loving and friendly pups - Bodhi and Luna - who live here at the Gayborhood. Aside from the occasional barking spree at incoming cars, they are quiet, harmless, and very sweet. If you have any concerns about dogs being onsite, please reach out to discuss.
4x4 (4WD) Notice: Please note that the road leading to our property is a dirt road, and during heavy rains it can be challenging for non-4x4 / 4WD vehicles to exit. In this case, non-4x4 vehicles may need to wait until any heavy rains subside before attempting to leave. Please keep this in mind when renting a vehicle or booking transportation.
Free Shuttle:
Arrivals: Optional shuttle departs San Jose International airport at 10am on Sunday, May 11, for a 4pm arrival at the Jungle Gayborhood.
Departures: Optional shuttle departs the Jungle Gayborhood at 8am on Saturday, May 17, for a 2pm arrival at SJO. Please book return flights after 4pm.
Dive into an experience that goes beyond just a getaway. Our retreats are crafted to provide you with a safe and welcoming space, where authenticity and connection take center stage. Whether you’re looking to unwind and recharge or eager to forge new friendships in an inclusive setting, our Jungle Gayborhood retreats offer a unique opportunity to connect with yourself and others in a meaningful way.
experienced facilitators who will guide enriching experiences, helping you discover more about yourself and your connection with others.
Join a diverse community that celebrates authenticity and diversity.
Immerse yourself in the lush nature, creating a unique backdrop for your moments of relaxation and reflection.
Enjoy activities designed to nurture your mind, body, and spirit.
All cabins are handmade primarily from locally-sourced bamboo, and while they are protected from the elements and enclosed in mosquito netting, they are open air and have spectacular views of the jungle. Private and shared accommodation options are available.
All cabins share a gorgeous bamboo bathhouse and shower facilities.
A/C is unnecessary in our region.
Price includes accommodation, use of facilities, and morning embodiment classes (such as yoga, meditation, etc) offered several days per week.
This price does not include the cost of meals ($50/person/night).
We have an in-house chef who prepares fresh and delicious meals daily, using local, organically grown ingredients whenever possible. We will do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions.
Got questions about our retreats in Costa Rica? Read the FAQs or get in touch via the contact form below.
Our retreats take place at the luxurious and bohemian Jungle Gayborhood in Diamante Valley, Costa Rica, offering a welcoming and inclusive environment for all couples.
The Jungle Gayborhood offers a paradisiacal oasis of calm, seamlessly integrating the natural beauty of Costa Rica with the peaceful practices of yoga. It’s not just about the asanas here; it’s about tapping into the serenity of an untouched paradise and reconnecting with one’s inner peace.
Costa Rica’s yoga retreats in the vibrant Jungle Gayborhood are designed to cultivate wellness by harmonizing the vitality of the lush rainforest environment with the restorative power of yoga. It’s wellness with a pinch of wild charm, and a whole lot of soul!
Yogis rave about Costa Rica’s retreats because they provide a tranquil setting that fosters both personal growth and relaxation. The country’s reputation for top-ranked retreats stems from their ability to deliver transformative experiences that go far beyond just the physical aspect of yoga.
Sacred sexuality is a practice that elevates sexual experiences to a spiritual level, aiming for a deeper connection with oneself and one’s partner.
Our retreats aren’t just set in nature; they give back to it. The eco-friendly practices and sustainable living ethos are woven into the experience, ensuring that your journey towards inner peace also contributes to the health of our planet.
The Jungle Gayborhood is more than inclusive; it’s a celebration of diversity. It’s a place where the LGBTQ+ family can find unity and peace, an environment that resonates with the essence of ‘Pura Vida’ and welcomes every individual with open arms.
Yes, Costa Rica has a good track record in terms of safety, and its growing social acceptance of the LGBTQ+ community makes it a relatively safe destination.
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